At some point in life, everyone loses someone they feel especially close to and we enter into grieving. The grieving that follows a loss is real, and can be very painful.
While it may be tempting to deny grieving in an attempt to avoid the pain, it's much healthier to accept those feelings of pain and loss, and to work through the grief process in an intentional way.
Grieving is a personal and highly individual experience. How you grieve depends on many factors. The following articles provide a large variety of techniques for assisting you through the grief process.